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Get out of your head.
Make room for your inner freak.
You want to feel like THAT woman in the bedroom—comfortable in your body, confident in your movement, and able to say what you want.
But you’re busy thinking about how your stomach looks, whether you’re moving awkwardly, and if your partner is enjoying it. Somewhere in all that thinking, your own pleasure becomes an afterthought.
Your pleasure deserves attention. Your body deserves care. And your inner freak deserves room to want what she wants—and say what she doesn’t.
Women-only · Learn at your pace · Come as you are
PLEASURE. CARE. STANDARDS.YOUR BODY DESERVES CARE★︎YOUR PLEASURE COUNTS★︎YOUR VOICE BELONGS HERE
The shift
Where you are now vs.
where you could be.
You deserve pleasure without abandoning yourself to get it.
Stuck in your head
Making room for your inner freak
You’re judging your stomach when you want to be enjoying the damn moment.
Practice focusing on what feels good instead of monitoring how you look.
Their pleasure is the priority. Yours is negotiable.
Learn what you want and practice asking for it. Your pleasure counts, too.
You second-guess every move because you’re scared you look stupid.
Learn your angles and practice moving with the body you have.
You say “I’m down” when you’re really scared they’ll lose interest.
Recognize the survival patterns behind your yes. Practice saying what you actually mean.
You wait for someone else to make you feel desirable.
Define your inner freak on your terms—with confidence, curiosity, boundaries, and standards.
You brush off discomfort and put your health last.
Take your body seriously. Ask questions, speak up, and make time for your care.
A place to come as you are.
Wondering if this is for you?
You can have your life together and still be in your head when the clothes come off.
You know how to show up for everyone else. But when it’s time to name what you want, enjoy your body, or put yourself first—you hesitate.
You deserve space to figure out what YOU like, what you need, and what you’re done tolerating.
- Tired of checking how your body looks instead of enjoying how it feels.
- Good at pleasing your partner, but still figuring out what does it for you.
- Ready to unpack the people-pleasing, shame, and “good girl” rules following you into bed.
- Feeling stiff or awkward and wanting to learn how to move with your body.
- Finding your inner freak, bringing her back, or giving her some grown-woman standards.
- Ready to take your health and comfort seriously.
Your inner freak has a place here.
Come on inSimple to start
How it works.
Start where you are. Take what you need. Keep your boundaries.
Join your community.
Join Know Your Norm™ and add the community to your phone’s home screen. Keep the lessons and conversations close.
Enter the communityGet into what you need.
Explore Before the Bedroom™ audios, seven-day guided series, and movement replays. Start with what hits home.
Join the conversation.
Ask a question, share a win, or simply listen. Connect with women working on confidence, pleasure, and well-being.
Your inner freak deserves more than a saved post. Give her somewhere to grow.
Meet your coach
Hey, I’m Coco.
I’m an intimacy and movement coach, women’s health advocate, and the woman behind Know Your Norm™.
After six years of coaching women, one thing kept coming up: we could work on the moves, but women were still in their heads—judging their bodies, questioning themselves, and worrying about whether their partner was pleased.
“I want you to feel like THAT woman—and actually enjoy being her.”
We can talk about your inner freak and your standards in the same conversation. Your pleasure matters. The woman experiencing it matters just as much.
Inside the community
Here’s everything you’ll get.
Practical lessons, honest conversations, and room to put yourself first.
Before the Bedroom™ audios
Weekly conversations about people-pleasing, body image, desire, and the “good girl” rules you’re ready to question.
Seven-day guided series
Short audios, manageable daily actions, and optional check-ins to help you explore your patterns and speak up for your needs.
Movement & class replays
Learn your angles. Explore your movement. Practice comfort, control, and confidence at your own pace.
Live Q&As with Coco
Bring the questions you’ve been sitting on. Ask for clarity and go deeper into the topics we’re exploring.
On-demand resource library
Return to lessons and replays whenever you need a refresher. Start with what speaks to you.
A women-only community
Ask questions, share wins, and connect with women finding, reviving, and elevating their inner freak. You choose what you share.
Your pleasure deserves attention. Your body deserves care. You deserve support while you figure out what that looks like.
Give my inner freak room to growChoose your next step
There’s more than one way to begin.
Start with the support that fits this season of your life.
Join the community
Audios, guided series, movement replays, live Q&As, and women growing together.
Explore membershipMove with Coco
Explore the Class & City Tour and see current sign-up and notification options, including the UK and Amsterdam.
Get on the class waitlistAsk about mentorship
Interested in closer guidance? Share what you hope to explore and request program details.
Explore mentorshipCurrent availability and pricing are shown at the linked sign-up or provided in response to your inquiry.
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What women are saying.
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Beyond the screen
Let’s move together.
Know Your Norm™ also comes to life in movement classes and city conversations. Explore the Class & City Tour, and put your name down for UK: London / Amsterdam updates.
Get on the 2027 waitlistGot questions?
Let’s get into them.
What if I’m busy or miss a live?
Explore self-paced audios, series, and replays on your schedule. Miss a live? Catch the replay when you have time.
Do I need a partner to join?
No. This starts with you—your body, your desires, your confidence, and your standards. Whether you’re single, dating, or partnered, there’s room for you here.
What if I’m shy or just getting started?
Start by listening, exploring, and getting honest with yourself. Your inner freak gets to grow at your pace.
Do I have to share personal details?
No. Join the conversation as much or as little as you want. You can reflect privately, and the seven-day series don’t require sexual activity or sharing intimate experiences.
Is this just about positions?
We explore the thoughts, habits, and survival patterns you bring into intimacy, along with movement, body confidence, and women’s wellness.
What if I feel awkward or have limited mobility?
Explore movement lessons at your pace, within your comfort and abilities. You can skip anything that doesn’t work for your body.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. You can cancel your membership anytime. Check the community checkout for current membership terms and pricing.
This is your invitation
Take up space in your own life.
Come with questions. Keep your boundaries. Learn alongside women making room for themselves, too.
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